
In bereavement cases never try to cheer up in a sympathy note with a joke; however well meant, in one’s grief it may be deemed unfeeling, inappropriate!.. Leave the comforting to the mourner’s loved ones from whom more than a sympathy note is considered appropriate! Be, or appear, sincerely saddened by the loss. Clearly state so: “I am saddened by the news of …’s death.” Say: “I am so sorry to hear of your loss.” Show so by emphasizing it, e.g., “. he/she will be greatly missed.” Unless a loved one writing a letter too, if you don’t attempt to comfort, it will be appreciated.
Letters requesting information can be personal letters but must be clear. Write a letter simply ask for the information want. In writing letters requesting information on subjects you don’t know much about, it helps to end your letter “. and any other details you may deem useful’. Writing letters so brings more information.
How quickly has he grown wings, like a bird, flown away!”
The Title: ‘Miss’ has no dot after it; ‘Esq.’ or ‘Sr.’ or ‘Jr.’ has comma before it but not, e.g., ‘II’; boy under 13 is ‘Master’ unmarried girl over 18 or women if living with partner is ‘Ms.’ (if to both partners, on separate lines, without ‘and’ or ‘&’, in alphabetical order); for the divorced, if retain same surname, include first name; if ‘Mr. & Mrs.’ and only surname (e.g., Jones) man’s name first, if using first names man’s (last) immediately before surname (if formal and woman outranks man, e.g., academic ‘Prof.’ & ‘Dr.’, in rank order [if married, alphabetically] ~if of equal rank an
Take a break from writing your letter; do something unrelated to writing a letter. You want to write a letter to make those points. Let your mind ‘digest’ the points you will raise in your letter.
The feelings of parents are -from a poem by the Cypriot thinker writer poet teacher the late Orhan Seyfi Ari:




